Dear Husband, Why The Unnecessary Pressure?

Some husbands overzealously put unnecessary pressure on their wives to make them patronize dangerous weight reduction and vagina-tightening supplements that make them susceptible to chronic diseases like cervical cancer, liver problem, and kidney disease ...

A good husband complements his wife's body, not body-shame her. Body shaming a woman makes her have low-self esteem. Childbirth comes with a lot of physical and emotional stress, which weakens the body. You should rather be thankful to her for sacrificing her body to give birth to another creature who invariably bears your name or your family name.

Childbirth naturally changes a woman's body. No reasonable husband expects her wife's body to remain the same after several years of marriage. The Law of diminishing returns must definitely set in at some point in life. House chores are another monsters that contribute to a woman's physical depreciation. This is usually more accentuated when kids are very young, and there's no one to assist in doing such a strenuous job; when a woman encounters unbridled stress as a result of house chores burden, such woman ages faster than her contemporaries.

It's not good enough to be condemning your wife's physical outlook without you rendering LITTLE assistance at home as far as homecare and childcare are concerned. Your wife is your partner, not your slave, and the authority you have over her is that of leadership, not lordship. Additionally, a healthy marriage should be a partnership union, not a Master-Servant union. If there's a union where the husband assumes the role of a Master and the wife is relegated to the role of a servant, such union is no longer a MARRIAGE but a BONDAGE.

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