My Boyfriend, My Girlfriend

It is often said that when the value of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. The rate at which the words 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' has been so abused among young people is alarming. When someone introduces the opposite sex as a friend, which can also be seen as a boyfriend or girlfriend, a lot of thought runs through the mind of the hearer.

Should friendship between the same sex be treated differently from the opposite sex? It is only a lack of understanding that has brought our young people here. Who is a boyfriend? Who is the girlfriend? A boyfriend or a girlfriend is somebody that is your friend whom you love you. But doesn't have sex with him or her. You don't kiss him or her mouth to mouth. You both have no right to touch each other's private parts like breasts, penis, vagina, and so on. You both don't have the right to see each other's nakedness.

Rather you are bound by similar interests, beliefs, and goals. My beautiful female, young person, a boyfriend, is just like your friend 'Tessy' and 'Queen.' The only difference is that they are females. My handsome male young person, a girlfriend, is just like your friends 'Kelvin' and 'Prince.' The only difference is that they are males. I have a question for you, my beautiful. Does 'Tessy' and 'Queen' touch your breasts, kiss you on the mouth, and have sex with you because you are their girlfriend? If the answer is 'no,' then that's what it's supposed to be. But if the answer is 'yes,' then it is wrong.

Do you know why? That's because it is the foundation of lesbianism. Lesbianism is the sexual relationship between females. I equally have a question for my handsome. Does 'Kelvin' and 'Prince' touch your penis? If the answer is 'no,' then that's what it's supposed to be. But if the answer is 'yes,' then it's wrong. Do you know why? That's because it is the start point of homosexuality. Homosexuality is the sexual relationship between males. You don't also have to touch your breasts, vagina, or penis to derive sexual pleasure; that too is wrong. Do you know why? That's the creche stage of masturbation. You equally don't have to allow a close relation, whether uncle, aunty, cousin, mum, dad, nephew, niece, and so on, to touch any of your private parts to derive sexual pleasure.

Do you know why? That, too, is the beginning of incest. See, the only person that should kiss your mouth, have sex with you, and touch your breasts, vagina, or penis is your wife or husband when you get married. I mean after your wedding day, not before your wedding day. Not during courtship; that is to say, it is not allowed between fiance and fiancee. God hates every form of sexual immorality, including those done with animals, objects, or technology-aided ones.

You hurt God and yourself when going the way of sexual perverseness instead of waiting till after your wedding day. Any friendship with the same sex or opposite sex that won't follow this pattern has got to be shown the exit door. You need both males and females in your life as friends; go for the ones you find reasonable. The ones that follow the pattern of godly and productive friendship. For it's not everybody that comes around you that should be your friend. Exit toxic friendships; it will only mar your life.

Go for the non-toxic ones; they build lives. It is better to be alone than to be with the wrong people. Trust God to connect you to the right kind of friends, as you first make Jesus, your friend by accepting Him as your personal Lord and Savior. And daily live for Him. He is tested and trusted...

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