Use Your Absence To Increase Respect And Honor

USE YOUR ABSENCE TO INCREASE RESPECT AND HONOR: This is for extroverts and over-social people.

Too much circulation makes the price go down: the more you are seen and heard from the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

 Everything in the world depends on absence and presence. A strong presence will draw Power and attention to you.-you shine more brightly than those around you. But a point is inevitably reached where two much presents create the opposite effect. The more you are seen and heard from the more your value degrades. You become a habit. No matter how hard you try to be different, subtly, without you knowing why people respect you less and less. At the moment you withdraw yourself before they unconsciously push you away. It is a game of hiding and seeking.

Even in a love relationship, the lover's absence stimulates your imagination forming a sort of aura around him/her but this aura fades when you know too much about him/her. The loved one becomes a person like anyone else, a person whose presence is taken for granted. The moment you allow yourself to be treated like anyone else, it is too late - you are swallowed and digested. To prevent this you need to starve the other person in your presence. Force their respect by threatening them with possibilities that they will lose you for good; create a pattern of presence and absence.

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