Who Set The Standards?!

Who set the standards?! Probably you!... A few days ago, I saw a post by a media personality who talked about how she used to judge her aunties who were unmarried at 30.

She's currently 37 and unmarried, and I thought about how ironic it was. It's always easy for someone to say, "if it were to be me, I would be doing this, or I would have done this."

It is true that sometimes, what we see and hear can put us under pressure, but at the end of the day, it's up to us to shake it off. We are sometimes the ones who set unnecessary and sometimes ridiculous standards for ourselves. Sometimes when you feel frustrated, think about why.

Why are you doing what is obviously stressing you out so much? I'm guilty of this too...There are lots of things I said I would do at a certain age that I didn't do. Now, I'm not displacing goals and drives. No.

What I am talking about is the pressure that we have put ourselves under by our own hands.

Do you! Be you!

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