Why Are You Afraid Of Dreaming Big?

Hey you there, it's high time you provide answer to this ever scaring question.

Are you one of those fearing that life is always there waiting to punch you in the neck whenever you dream big? And this, in turn, has relegated you to the background, making you lower your expectations of life. You believe this won't make you worry a lot when small things come your way or nothing comes at all. This mentality is toxic to your growth, dude. Why don't you wake up from your shuteye and keep this worry as far away from you as possible?

Why do you think living a colorless version of your life is the best you can attain in life? Remember, thinking that things can be too good for you will only make things worse, and the tragic part of it is that such thoughts become a self-fulfilling prophecy and can, as a result, make you lose your ability to dream.

You're not the lazy type, and everyone thinks that you should have been more thriving than you're today. You keep reflecting on your life; maybe you can see where things get leaked. But unfortunately, all is to no avail. You truly have a dream like others, but you are only putting on your SOME and not your ALL in pursuing these set goals. To overcome this, dude, you may want to pursue anything that scares you or that you wouldn't typically do. I mean something that your spirit gels with.

You might want to sit yourself down and have a thorough self-assessment with yourself. If I say yourself, I mean with your mind, brain, and maybe your soul. But in doing this, make sure you don't deprive others too of participating in the discussion; you shouldn't allow only your voice to be amplified; make sure that you give in to enabling a diversity of ideas to be represented.

Yes, it may seem difficult to operate the first-timer machine without a manual, and walking a path without a map might be hard. But not getting your hands on a manual or not finding a map shouldn't be a hindrance to you embarking on the journey to your destined land. Well, instead of laying low with your face on the ground, maybe you are supposed to write the manual and draw the map, so someone who comes behind you won't get lost. Create a path where there's none.

Program yourself so that you won't even think or dream of expecting less from the world for once. Simply put, you need the nerves and rashness to dare to think that all things are possible and that no goal is unattainable, even though it might require you to be ten times as good as you're at the moment.

Remember, quitting is one of the languages of the weak, don't ever do that; just swallow down the discomfort and keep clocking in every day with the hope that everything is gonna be alright. It is not gonna be easy, but following the normal code might be more helpful than you think. By normal code, I mean 'work hard and pray harder.

The monster won't stop being so big; it's your duty to keep fighting it. You don't have to wait to find an example of someone like you, but instead, become that example for others to follow. You need to protect what is a sacred part of you, I mean your values. That's your superpower so wield it with pride.

This is when you sit yourself down and give permission to yourself to be what you want. You may not always get what you dreamed of in the exact form you dreamed of it. However, that should not stop you from dreaming big even in the midst of a letdown, and before you know it, things will begin to fall into place in a way that feels divine.

116

View all 7 likes