Why You Need To Take Charge Of Your Life

You're the only one that can improve yourself...Never lose sleep over how things will work for you or whether or not they will at all. But instead, focus on that which is working and keep on innovating.

However, it might require you to think outside the box. Only you can make all the difference in your life, so why don't you focus and concentrate on yourself. Keep expanding. Remember, one can only prosper according to the magnitude of efforts put into achieving the set goals. There are some decisions that need urgent action; delaying such decisions might pin us in an uncomfortable corner and, in turn, drain us to bone. Take charge of your life and steer it in the direction of your dreams. Giving the steering to anyone else might somehow prone you to circumstances that put you at a disadvantage.

Don't be your obstacle; I want you to keep your head above water in a world that might feel like it is trying to drown you. Remember that bending yourself all the time people complain of you being different can only break you. Stop trying hard to please others; no matter how hard you try, there will still be someone who is not satisfied. 

Heads up and turn a deaf ear to things that you think won't help you grow. Listen, dude, although not all advice needs to be discarded, mostly when it comes from those that have your best interests at heart. Maybe this is why you need to surround yourself with people you trust and love and those that bring out the best in you, those that will walk with you on your sad days and always be there when the going is tough. You grinned, thinking of how unreal this can be; yeah, people like that are hard to find but believe me, they still exist. 

Put your best foot forward; talk is cheap while your actions are expensive. Think about all the world's success up there; they don't just wake up one day and meet themselves at the top. No! They are dreamers just like you, but they put all their efforts into actualizing these dreams; they work their butts up to be where they are today. 

Why will you ever think of quitting now, just because you keep falling each time you stand. You keep on blaming others for your failures while all you do yourself is follow others' dreams instead of pursuing yours. You keep on sobbing like someone burned your pot of rice instead of weaponizing the pain into a stepping stone to the top.

Hey dude, failure is not the end and shouldn't be coz if you don't fall at times, you won't know the power of coming back. Stand your ground and make sure you follow your heart; tread the road you think will lead you to the destined land, and not the ones being proposed for you to follow. Although it is not going to be an easy feat, yeah, I guarantee you that. But believe me, focus and determination are all you need to be at the top, a lot of them. Don't forget that it will require a lot of determination, dedication, preparation, and calculation too. 

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